WHAT?!?! Yup. You are creating this. Here is the problem and the solution. The problem is that you’re tolerating people disrespecting you.
Are people no calling and no showing on you?
What do you do when that happens?
Do you send them a message to ensure that they’re alright?
I bet you do.
They just disrespected you.
Don’t follow up. Don’t ever talk to them again. Don’t allow them to reschedule. Don’t respond if they contact you…..
“THIS IS ABSURD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
Really?
Well, you keep on getting disrespected and you keep on allowing it.
You are putting energy out into the Universe; you are saying that you are not deserving of respect.
You don’t even respect yourself, and you get upset when other people disrespect you.
Do you see how stupid that looks?
How long do you wait for somebody to show up for a meeting if they’re running late?
“Well, five minutes, because you never know what somebody is going through!”
Okay. AGAIN. You are not respecting yourself and you’re surprised that you keep on getting disrespected?
What would Warren Buffet do? What would Bill Gates do if you showed up late to a meeting with them?
“I don’t even care about them!”
Okay. They’re billionaires and you still have to work for a living.
They respect themselves and their time and you don’t.
Wait three minutes.
If they’re not there in three minutes, leave.
Don’t follow up.
Forget that they exist.
Move on with your life.
If they contact you, ignore them.
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